Don't buy me large, expensive bouquets of flowers. Instead, stroke my face with a single rose petal and mingle its scent with that of your lips and breath.
Don't take me to candlelight dinners where the waiters wear coat tails. Instead, dance with me in the dark to Sting's "When We Dance".
Don't compose ditties for me and sing them to me with guitar accompaniment. Instead, hum a soft tune in my ear on a sleepless night while you stroke my hair.
Don't write poetry for me. Instead, read my favourite poems and try to understand why I love them.
Don't repeat "I love you" every other hour. Instead, show me your vulnerability and allow me to hold you when you've had a bad day.
Don't buy me expensive lingerie and silk sheets. Instead, look into my eyes when you make love to me.
Don't open doors nor pull out chairs for me. Instead, be strong for me in times when I truly need you to be.
Don't pay for all my shopping. Instead, tell me honestly when I put on something that makes me look fat, and tell me I'm gorgeous when I put on something lovely even if it costs an arm and a leg.
Don't do everything I like and go to every place I like. Instead, show me who you are and allow us to discover our own things to do and places to go.
Don't burn yourself out trying to be Mr Super Romantic in the first months of our courtship. Instead, be my perennial best friend and partner.
Don't worship me. Instead, love me.
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4 comments:
Well said!
Oh no! Are you ok?
I'm ok! This is a consolidation of thoughts and realisations I've had over the years about what I really want in a relationship - not that this is a manual on how to date me, but implied concepts on what matters to me.
And no, it's not directed at any one person in particular.
Oh I see, what would you do for your man?
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